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"We're not going to have THIS fight again, are we?"

- Zekeriah, age 4

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Posts Tagged ‘struggles’

The Reluctant Runner

By Kim Anderson

So I’m going to do something kinda nuts. I am going to do something I’ve never attempted before and had no reason to try. I’m going to test my patience, my tolerance for pain and my character. I’m going to want to give up. I’m going to need support. I’m going to run a half marathon in July (even though I’ve never ran a full mile without stopping) and I’m doing it in honor of a kid at Youth Homes. Some kid I haven’t met and probably never will. I’m doing this because I can’t come up with any more excuses. I’m doing it because I am in awe of what this kid will need to do to survive.


This kid will wake up each morning and might need to fight their urge to self medicate with drugs or alcohol. At age 4, 9, 15, 12, 17 ½ …they will need to overcome self abuse, self hatred, insecurity, chemical dependency, rape, incest, hunger, poverty, mental illness, ignorance, and negative role models that they happen to love deeply. At times they will feel small and alone and need to build themselves up with little or no support from family. And the amazing thing is they do overcome these things (or learn how to deal with them) with time, practice, self determination, love and support.
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Mama Digs: 32

By Nici Holt Cline

Today I have been on this planet for 32 years. More than a new year, my birth day pushes me to look at the last year’s accomplishments and struggles, to set resolutions. This last year has been the biggest, fullest, hardest and most satisfying year of my life.

I didn’t know it but I was actually pregnant on my birthday last year. My due date was bumped up an entire month when I was 20 weeks, er, 24 weeks along. It threw us a bit to get pregnant so quickly, as in it only takes once.

Watching my belly grow so fast, an inescapable reminder of imminent big change, pushed our family to make some major decisions. We decided I’d leave my job of seven years. We decided Andy would have $10,000 in mouth surgeries in an effort to finally fix the damage from an eighth grade bike wreck. I dug a bit deeper into writing and making. Andy is in his final year of his four-year electrical apprentice program, working full-time, studying, taking tests. I threw my entirety into my work at the museum, giving it my best self, wanting to leave a legacy I could be proud of.

Andy had his first major solo art exhibit. I grew a human.
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Mama(lode) says: The hand that feeds you

I dread dinner time. The bite by bite negotiations, the time out threats to “stay in your seat”, the lack of nutrition in my three-year-old’s diet, all support my insecurities as a mother. Even if the day has gone great, if we read books, walked in the fresh air, learned to share—everything crumbles at dinner time. We are all hungry, we are all tired and it is perhaps the largest transition of the day. My husband, god-love-him, has come home from work, nap time is over and the sun is going down on all the fun outside.

Before I had kids I would have never thought I would bribe my child with dessert to eat just three more bites. Please baby, three. I subscribed to the belief that a child will not starve and will eventually eat the nutritious and homemade food I would place before him every evening.

Ha.
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