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"Dad, you just take care of what you need to do, and I will take care of what I need to do. (when asked to remove his boots before coming inside)"

- Connor, age 3

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Posts Tagged ‘Nici Holt Cline’

Mama Digs: my red lips

Wow, I am impressed. You have lipstick on and everything.

This is what my neighbor said to me as I was walking down my sidewalk the other day. My daughters and I had quickly and desperately exited the house because, in the company of two cranky babies, this mama needed to get OUT. I put on lipstick before I tossed hats on my kids and entered fresh air.

Yes, I have to. This is how I replied to my neighbor. It shocked me as I said it. Then she asked me if I felt naked without it. I wondered what she meant by the and everything in her original observation. I said, No no. It’s not that I really have to…and as I was joking about and defending my red lips I realized that my red lips have a bigger purpose than just adding some color to my face.
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Mama Digs: Ain’t Nothin’ Gonna Break My Stride

Nici Holt Cline

I have been running with my two kids. Oofta it is hard but I enjoy this challenge that looks a lot like my overarching challenge as a mama of two: it’s all about a sliver of time, an alignment of stars and getting on it, putting one foot in front of another, before it passes. Sometimes the opportunity isn’t convenient but when the opportunity is there, it is only right then.

Mamalode Missoula, Nici Holt Cline, Mama Digs

Get on it. And then soak up the subsequent empowerment that it, whatever it is, can be done.

Going for a run is not organic and whimsical like it used to be. It requires the skilled precision, practice and focus of, say, a sniper or an Olympic athlete.

I have a 9-11:30am window, after breakfast, during Ruby’s nap but before Margot’s nap. It can’t be too close to my toddler’s naptime because if she falls asleep, she won’t stay asleep. It can’t be too early because it’s cold, Ruby’s not tired and I haven’t had enough coffee.
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Mama digs: Good Stuff

By Nici Holt Cline

When my husband and I decided to have kids, I was nervous about all the STUFF that seemed to unavoidably come with them. I feared a yard peppered with plastic toys and a living room where exersaucers replaced end tables. I dreaded a diaper bag that necessitated I do the hokey pokey to fit through a doorway.

It’s because I like space between objects in my home and it’s because I didn’t want to quadruple my annual consumption of fossil fuels. It’s also because I didn’t think we needed all that snaz. I am by no means a minimalist but I do like to live simply. I thought to myself and eventually said out loud that my kids would be perfectly happy with yogurt lids, wooden spoons and hand-me-downs.

I never imagined I’d make a special trip to Target to get my two year-old a brand new, shiny pink laptop that talks. But that is exactly what happened last week. And I was so excited to do it.

Mamalode Missoula, Nici Holt Cline, Mama Digs

A shift occurred in me as my kid grew into herself and decided what she liked all on her own. I wanted, with all of my heart, to give her dinosaur bath toys. I stayed up too late to sew her a plush duck. And when I happened upon an Elmo doll at Goodwill I was giddy like I had discovered a hundred dollar bill in my pocket.
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Mama Digs: 32

By Nici Holt Cline

Today I have been on this planet for 32 years. More than a new year, my birth day pushes me to look at the last year’s accomplishments and struggles, to set resolutions. This last year has been the biggest, fullest, hardest and most satisfying year of my life.

I didn’t know it but I was actually pregnant on my birthday last year. My due date was bumped up an entire month when I was 20 weeks, er, 24 weeks along. It threw us a bit to get pregnant so quickly, as in it only takes once.

Watching my belly grow so fast, an inescapable reminder of imminent big change, pushed our family to make some major decisions. We decided I’d leave my job of seven years. We decided Andy would have $10,000 in mouth surgeries in an effort to finally fix the damage from an eighth grade bike wreck. I dug a bit deeper into writing and making. Andy is in his final year of his four-year electrical apprentice program, working full-time, studying, taking tests. I threw my entirety into my work at the museum, giving it my best self, wanting to leave a legacy I could be proud of.

Andy had his first major solo art exhibit. I grew a human.
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Mama Digs: A Mother’s Pancake

By Nici Holt Cline

We love pancakes in our house. Andy is a purist: plain fluffy cakes made from scratch with white flour. I experiment with cornmeal johnnycakes and multi-grain flapjacks. They are sometimes topped with peanut butter, homemade applesauce or whole milk blueberry yogurt. They are always topped with Grade A maple syrup and salted organic butter.

When we were 19 we fell in love over pancakes in Andy’s mom’s kitchen. In Jackson, Wyoming, when we were 22, we ate pancakes on the floor of our tiny apartment with the only two forks we owned on the only two plates we owned on a blanket on the floor. We shared pancakes while camping across the country, through five different rentals in college and, now, we eat pancakes on our table in our home with our kids.

For 13 years Andy and I have always cherished and made time for slow weekend breakfasts together. Since parenthood, we maintain that need but it is, of course, different with syrup clinging to my curls, yogurt painted across the table, sticky fingers touching everything,  potty breaks and bouncing an infant between bites.

Mamalode Missoula, Nici Holt Cline, Mama Digs

Sometime since December 2007, the soft Sunday mornings with fresh, hot coffee and fresh, hot pancakes, NPR lulling us into conversations about last week and next gave way to lively Sunday mornings with coffee that has been reheated seven times, Andy at the stove flipping cakes, balancing a baby on his shoulder, me asking Margot for the 127th time to please not stand on the table and The Hamster Dance twirling us into our day.
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